A family's recently-discovered correspondence provides the inspiration for this fascinating and deeply-moving account of Jewish family life before, during and after the Holocaust. Rebecca Boehling and Uta Larkey reveal how the Kaufmann-Steinberg family was pulled apart under the Nazi regime and left divided between Germany, the US and Palestine. The family's unique eight-way correspondence across two generations brings into sharp focus the dilemma of Jews in Nazi Germany facing the painful decision of when and if they should leave Germany. The authors capture the family members' fluctuating emotions of hope, optimism, resignation and despair as well as the day-to-day concerns, experiences and dynamics of family life despite increasing persecution and impending deportation. Headed by two sisters who were among the first female business owners in Essen, the family was far from conventional, and their story contributes a new dimension to our understanding of life in Germany during these dark years. Editorial Reviews From the PublisherLife and Loss in the Shadow of the Holocaust offers a richly-textured account of the Kaufmann-Steinberg family during the Second World War. Expertly illuminated by Rebecca Boehling and Uta Larkey, it is based on an extraordinarily full set of correspondence between family members with diverse perspectives. Among the many strengths of this superb study is the extent to which it challenges persistent notions concerning gender roles, relations with non-Jewish Germans, and attitudes toward traditional Judaism within German Jewry." -Michael Berkowitz, author of The Crime of My Very Existence: Nazism and the Myth of Jewish CriminalityBased on a unique collection of private documents, Rebecca Boehling's and Uta Larkey's story of the fragmentation, destruction and regeneration of the Kaufmann-Steinberg family in the Holocaust is disturbing, saddening and intriguing -- an outstanding book, as powerful as the famous diaries of Victor Klemperer and the renowned letters of Lily Jahn." -Thomas KA?hne, author of Belonging and Genocide: Hitler's Community, 1918-1945.The authors have eloquently evoked the pain of a family scattered over three continents by Nazi persecution. Using gender and intergenerational analyses of a recently discovered cache of 600 letters, they have shown how increasing persecution forced German Jews to address the heart-wrenching question of whether togo or to stay." This unique correspondence between siblings and their elders as well as among siblings also documents the ultimate terror of trying to escape Germany as the noose tightened, first around the younger ones, who managed to flee, and then around the older ones. This collective family biography will be hard to forget: it reveals the sheer agony of family decisions, the maddening frustration of emigration and immigration red tape, and the deafening silence of the people left behind." -Marion Kaplan, author of Between Dignity and Despair: Jewish Life in Nazi GermanyIt is scholarship that impresses not only with its vigor, but with its narrative pull and its strong but quiet moral commitment to memory and its power." -UMBC's Alumni MagazineThe haunting nature of these letters provides great poignancy and makes this collection an outstanding addition to Holocaust collections." -BooklistThe book is an excellent resource for historical novelists and for anyone fascinated by the decade leading up to World War II in Germany." -Kristen Hannum, Historical Novels Review Library Journal The voluminous correspondence of the Kaufmann-Steinberg family--among siblings Marianne, Loti, and Kurt, as well as with their mother and aunt (whom the children referred to astheir parents")--provides a treasure trove of information about how a German Jewish family attempted to survive the Nazis. Boehling (history, Univ. of Maryland, Baltimore) and Larkey (German studies, Goucher Coll.) are at their best when integrating the individual experiences into the wider narrative of Nazi anti-Semitic policy, war, and Holocaust. Their analysis of the emotional challenges faced by the siblings as they chose to leave Germany, two going to Palestine and one to the United States, never to see their parents again, along with the stress of adapting to their new conditions is penetrating. Particularly heartbreaking is how economic stress, geographic distance, and the long time between communications diminished formerly strong sibling bonds. VERDICT Directed at the general reader, the author's explanation of where the Kaufmann-Steinberg story is typical or atypical of the German Jewish experience is well done. The book, however, periodically suffers from repetition and sometimes poor organization on the paragraph level. Nonetheless, recommended for all interested readers and specialists.--Frederic Krome, Univ. of Cincinnati Clermont Coll.